u/Alone_Pirate8540

I've had 3 losses and my friend has just told me she's pregnant.

She told me over text and no-one else currently knows, which I so appreciate (she knows of my losses which I think helps).

I'm struggling with my feelings - I feel so sad, so jealous that she's further along than I ever got and that it's just so unfair that things are going well for her and yet for me, 3 times it's ended in a loss. While also balancing the fact that I am happy for her, though that feeling is definitely minimal atm while I struggle with how I feel.

Any advice on coping with this, is it just I have to let myself feel these feelings? We're about to start testing both on the NHS and privately so I'm trying to stay positive but urgh I just feel so sad