u/Alone_Slice_3604

Seeing my ex-gf tomorrow 21f and me 22M after sudden breakup 3months ago - what questions should I ask besides "what happened"? Posted this before, need advice Rant

Hey i don't know what to say

Back in February this year, my girlfriend of 3 years suddenly called me out of nowhere and said she wanted to end things. No warning, no real explanation - just "it's over." I was devastated. We've been no-contact since, but after months of me begging for closure, she finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

I posted about this exact situation here 7 months ago https://www.reddit.com/r/Relationshiplndia/s/TnO8aCuMCU. I still love her to death and in my heart I know we could work, but I don't want to just beg or rehash "what happened?" again. I need to approach this maturely.

What are some good, non-desperate questions to ask her tomorrow to understand her side, see if there's any spark left, or get real closure? Like stuff about her feelings now, what changed, or future possibilities without sounding

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u/Alone_Slice_3604 — 8 days ago