u/Alternative-Food-496

I'm gonna hold your shoulder when I say this; YOU OWE YOUR PARENTS NOTHING

You don't owe your parents your life, your obedience, or a "repayment" for your childhood.

They treat you like shit you are the shit, do this do that to impress them have some form of validation from them stop you have nothing to prove to anyone. Some parents want you to set yourself on fire to keep themselves warm, yes they bore you nurtured you its not a favor they doing for you its a moral responsibility, a choice they made planned or unplanned. Drop the guilt and go live for yourself.