Step daughter doesn’t listen to rules
I’ve been raising my SD with my partner for over a year, her mum isn’t in the picture for over 9 months (mothers choice) step daughter does not listen to me remotely regarding rules and just genuine respect for the house, if I say don’t do something she’ll just go ahead and do it anyways, if I tell her to stop doing something she just completely ignores me,
She is almost 8, her behaviour is very controlling and she is very very rude to people, it’s almost an entitled behaviour trait along with obnoxiousness (which is a trait from her bio mum)
What do I do in this situation? Im on my own with her before school and after school till her dad is home, I also have a 3 year old who is starting to pick up her behaviour which I do not find acceptable so my daughter will be ‘told off’ for doing something after I said not to.
Her dad completely ignores the behaviour and doesn’t back me up at all, do I just stop trying and let her carry on with her entitled behaviour?