u/Alternative_Careless

BPD sister impacting my personal romantic relationship

My sisters behaviour has started to really negatively impact my personal relationships. I hide a lot of her behaviour from my friends, but usually share everything with my partner of 6 years. Recently after a blowout, my partner basically expressed that he doesn’t know if he can handle being with me and seeing her treatment of me /our family have no repercussions.

I understand it’s reasonable for him to not want to be part of a volatile dynamic, but I wonder if there’s something I can do to try to keep my sister in my life and not sacrifice my own personal relationship. I hope that makes sense.

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u/Alternative_Careless — 8 days ago