HEARTBREAK AFTER IN A 7 YEAR RELATIONSHIP
Backstory first: we were together for 7 years, but she ghosted me for a week — no replies from her, her family, or her friends. We were supposed to get married this year, but she said she felt like I couldn’t take care of her because of her rheumatoid arthritis.
I did everything I could for her. I bought everything she needed, took care of her the best way I knew how, and showed my love by buying things that made her happy, whether it was for her hobbies or her real-life needs. I was always the one going to her place because she was sick, and I always made the effort for her, but somehow it still wasn’t enough.
How do you move on from this? I can’t think straight. I can’t enjoy my hobbies anymore. I can’t even do the things I normally do. All I ever think about is what I did wrong or what I should have done to make things right, but there’s nothing I can do because she already decided she doesn’t need me anymore.
Then after we broke up, I saw her on Instagram talking to another guy on the same day we broke up. I don’t know if she was telling the truth when we ended things, or if she had already cheated because she seemed to move on the very next day after our breakup.