Should I or should I not choose this person?
From the context of someone who wants to settle down, I’d really want to know how the female ideology in regards to who they select. Do most women have the ideology of “I will wait for whoever has enough confidence to state his intentions” or they try to maintain/ they maintian communication/friendships with who they feel they’d hope to be with eventually even if the man hasn’t committed.
I ask this primarily because im contemplating on going for someone now that im ready and i believe that if your spouse truly should be your “best friend” she could’ve been there while i was building or is my view a minority. Most of all why is it that i was invisible all along, could it be because i never commuted due to not being able and the time?
Perhaps I have a different minority ideology of what marriage is but im open to listening to other perspectives.