is she lying about coming back? (bpd avoidant)
I love her so much I genuinely want the best for her, i have autism and adhd myself so I really struggled to figure out how to handle this, things were going decent before this. im not even sure if its a full on like ending of things (we weren't fully in a relationship but it basically was one) or a avoidant burn out or break but this absolutely ruined me and broke my heart because I love her, everything about her, everything we had, we made eachother so happy. man this week without her had been torture tbh. worst part was, i was at the pub with my mates pretty drunk when she sprung this on me. this was my first time dealing with borderline personality disorder and avoidance so I think I just fucked up somewhere but I really want her back, what do I do?
what do yall make of this?