is dating in the queer scene really that hard in the ph?
hi! i’m (21F) bisexual—honestly leaning more towards women—and very feminine presenting. as in straight-passing ako, sis! walang maga-akala hahaha! and that’s honestly the hardest part for me especially when looking for someone in the local queer dating scene.
for instance, there was one time when me and my friend went to a get-together that was meant for sapphics specifically. tell me why everyone thought i was just my bestie’s chaperone 😔 like, hello, i’m looking for pussy too, ‘no!
another thing is i have a fem4fem preference, and if i do get lucky, a woman does approach me, kaso she’s masc. pls be kind as i have nothing against mascs, really just a matter of personal preference and types on my end! and if i do muster up the courage to come up to a queer femme, she’ll turn me down kasi ‘di niya ako type.
is it really that hard to find someone to date here in the local queer dating scene? feeling kinda hopeless na! 😔