how do i(20f) get him(22m) to stop having wandering eyes or for me to stop being insecure
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I love my boyfriend a lot. I also feel like we have our issues.But when we were in the beginning stages of our relationship we had taken a week long break and i asked him if we were going to stay loyal during it and he said yes then proceeded to flirt with another woman, i was shattered but told me about chastity and gave me a key and wanted me back so we tried again, and we have been doing good since. ive learned a lot about myself in this relationship, about how i like to be dominate him and have him caged up for me, but i feel like im not doing enough for him, like i dont peg him enough or degrade him enough a month or 2 ago i found a porn reddit he has had and i felt uncomfortable bc im a very insecure individual. And recently i found him liking thirst traps of beautiful women on tik tok and a few of them were only fans girls and his argument is if i didnt go looking i wouldnt be upset, but its the point of him liking them in the first place. Ive also developed the insecurity of not being a trans woman. But i do know hes bi and likes both ways but i still feel the fear hes going to find a hot trans women that likes all the shit he does. how do i stop being as insecure or talk to him about my insecurities. I love him a lot
and after the tik toks i asked him to cage up for me and he still hasnt
i wish i had a pornstar body bc then maybe he would oay more attention to me or compliment me more
things to note,
its not a constant thing of him liking other girls thirst traps but its a here and there
and he doesnt compliment me every week not just every day but not every week
he doesnt post me but posts his car 24/7 and wont repost my stories of me
also my first reddit story so sorry if its bad
how do i salvage our relationship and push past this?