Interested in opinions
Me 27M in an LDR with a girl 30F from Germany. We met in February 2025 and after 5 months of daily talking I finally visited her for 2 weeks. We had planned a trip for her to come here to me for a month after and had daily intense communication talking about missing each-other and counting the days down. We agreed the second trip here would be a true “test” to see if we were compatible. We had no exclusivity talk or made anything official but we had plenty of sex on our trip together and we’re planning a future. I found out that a month before our second trip she had been partying with a past lover with his and her friends at his private home and clubbing together for a week. She doesn’t know I know any of this. She mentioned going to a “friend’s” place. But obviously left out the fact that they had been lovers in the past. Would this be considered cheating, or at least deception. Or since it was in the “grey period” was it fair game? This was in August 2025 and I just found out now. We have been official since September 2025.. thanks!
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