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A$hl3y A., you know who you are!! If gusto gyud ka mahimong known diri sa Dumaguete, please ayaw mig uwata ana imong batasan, dai. Honestly, lahi ra kaayo ang image nga imong gipakita sa people compared sa mga things nga nahibaw-an sa mga taong actually close nimo. You always act so sweet, buotan, and super innocent, kanang murag you always need people to protect you. But dai, we both know dili gyud ka that innocent. Daghan kaayog stories about you, especially gikan sa mga people nga nakauban and naka-close nimo. And please, ayaw pud pag-act nga wala kay mga nahimo with other people. You know exactly what I mean. Naa kay mga situations nga nahubog ka and you did things nga dili nimo ma-own the next day, then suddenly “wala ko kahinumdom kay hubog ko.” If you genuinely don’t remember, then okay, dili na nako i-judge. But if every time naay issue, “nahubog ko” or “wala ko kahinumdom” imong excuse, obviously people will start questioning you. What’s even more ironic is how much you talk about your own friends and people close to you. Dili lang gani simple chismis, sometimes murag ikaw mismo ang mag-change sa story depending on who you’re talking to. Then the people nga imong gi-share-an sa imong stories, sila pa gyud imong hisgutan sa lain group. So honestly, who are your real friends? And please don’t assume nga everyone who calls you out is jealous or insecure. Not everyone is against you because they’re threatened by you. Sometimes people are just genuinely tired of the same behavior, inconsistent stories, and the way you treat people. If gusto gyud ka mahimong known, then be ready pud nga dili tanan nga mahibaw-an sa people about you kay good things. You can’t control what people think when they have their own experiences and things they’ve seen and heard. It’s so easy to act sweet, buotan, and innocent when people are watching. What really matters is who you are when wala kay audience, wala kay need i-impress, and wala kay image nga i-maintain. Dili ni because I want to ruin you, but if gusto gyud ka mailhan sa mga tao, then be ready nga mailhan ka beyond the image you keep showing. Maybe it’s time nga dili pirmi ang uban imong tudloan sa ilang mistakes, and maybe look at yourself and your own actions pud. If layhan mo makabalo sa tinuod nga nahitabo, then ingnon na nako tanan diri.