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u/AmaniLaniNani

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Hello, I apologize if this question has been asked multiple times. I am not in the best state mentally at the moment and am currently grieving.

As the title says, how can I practice this or improve? To add context, I work in ABA and earlier today I had a client graduate for the 4th time. I won't lie, it was(still is) rather painful and I already knew this day would come but it still hurts. I wish I wouldn't get so attached because in the end, it hurts me a lot and I suffer.

I feel dumb for asking for help on becoming less attached or how to handle it better. I'm sorry. Please be kind as I am sad about this. Any comments or advice is greatly appreciated.

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u/AmaniLaniNani — 25 days ago
▲ 7 r/Bhojpuriyas

Hi! For some context I'm new to learning this language and became interested in it since half of my father's side (Trinidad & Tobago) speaks/spoke it. Unfortunately he won't let me contact them so I'm taking learning into my own hands.

I do have a few questions about the pronouns.

When saying "I am"/"You are"/"He/She/It is" etc, would I say something like "हम....हईं"/ "इ/ऊ...हऽ"? Or would "हम...बनी"/"इ/ऊ....बा" be used more?

Another question I have is when you're talking to someone you're familiar with, is "टोर" okay or is there another form?

Lastly, when it comes to pronouncing any words that have "ऽ" do I pronounce is as an extra "a" or do I say it a different way? For example "तोर के हवऽ?" would be "Tor ke hav?" or would it be "Tor ke hava?"?.

If I made any mistakes please let me know and for reference, I'm using/reading a book called "Learn Bhojpuri For Beginners" by Ahmet Neseli. There is also a channel I go to for learning more phrases (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTaPp9r5UfOzOyPhyeI0g1iTnp4h6f4Xh&si=ipYBdH9-EriN5QCd).

Also please don't attack me, I'm still new and learning.

u/AmaniLaniNani — 27 days ago