Am I wrong?
Slm I have a friend that was soooo attached to me like if I don’t talk to her she would start crying and posting sad stories without really telling me and also she started talking to my sister just to know if I am talking to someone else and even when I told her that I need a break from talking to people she just said “ yes you don’t have to talk to them you have me “ and she lately started sending me things like “ I adore you “ or” I can’t live without you “ “ and I would die if something happened between us “ though I told her since I met her that I hate when someone get attached to me
I couldn’t handle it anymore so I cut her off with a really long message but I felt guilty 🥲
This is the message:
Imane, I'm sorry, but I don't feel like talking anymore because, frankly, I'm exhausted from the pressure and the internship. I found myself unable to take on any more weight, and as you know, I'm not the type to play games with people. I'm sorry, but you demand my total attention in our relationship, and quite frankly, I am not ready for this burden. I don't want to repeat the same stories as last year when I was under a huge amount of psychological pressure—partly because I was carrying someone else's worries. Honestly, you used to treat my words as if they were divine revelation and say that I'm your role model and so on, even though I always told you not to rely on me like that, that you and I are not the same, and whenever you failed at something, I ended up blaming myself. I've reached a point where my peace of mind is more important, and honestly, if I'm not doing well, I'll end up taking it out on you and being unfair to you.
Therefore, it's better if we keep our relationship light and not like before—meaning, don't expect me to always be available. I know my words will hurt you, but that's life: sometimes a blow hurts you, but it teaches you.