My partner went away on holiday for four days , all but day four I heard from him when he never told me he got back safe from out with the lads . Every morning he’d called me at 8am and nothing , I called him and he said I was upsetting his mental health by calling him and I was starting an argument . He hung up strangely . I sent him
Messages what was going on and he repeatedly rejected my calls . I had a bad feeling and checked his instagram on a whim and there was a woman with big boobs (what he’s got a thing for and mines only small) who was in same area I knew he was staying.
However when he got back he only patted me on the back as a welcome home. I’d been working a physical job all week and trying to get healthier for him and exercising.
I stayed up until one am cooking his favourite food .
That night during sex as I’d missed him I queefed . Sometimes it happens odd once but this was around five times when we changed positions.
The next morning he started on me that I had obviously cheated . He told me I had even felt bigger and what happens is evidence of cheated . I’ve honestly not .
On my mums and kids life . I was working and on call to him then sleeping.
Turns out he had been spying on my instagram usuonf a friend and accused my last post of after a d”ck said added a broke heart . So I let it out about the woman he had followed . He insisted she was someone he was looking for to help him with work and they never met .
None the stories made sense .
I went to work . It goes on.
When I got back he started again. He told me unless I sat and confessed the relationship was over . In the past I’ve never cheated but I did unload my emotions when I fought with my partner to another guy.
This time I’d sent not one message to one guy except work mates . I’d work and slept . He told me he’d see in his dreams I’d also done it and he’s spiritual so it’s true .
24 hours later still on a mess. He wants to me admit I’ve cheated and kicked me out the house . I have spent and day and half crying my heart out and repeating nothing happened .
I gave him my phone last night he checked everything . He found nothing - I’d done nothing -
He was still not happy so concluded I had deleted evidence . I told him to message or call anyone .
He said id obviously pre set it up an would have told everyone what to say . He has an answer for everything o ty to reassure .
During this I asked to see his phone as he boasted how loyal. I found a message from a strange number an he jumped . When we first married he was flirting all over th pictures of a local young obese girl. Big boobs. Yes he was messaging her calling her beautiful .
He said it was an old message . I said how it says today . He told me his phone was glitching and I was crazy . I calmly tested his theory until he angrily admitted he had messaged her in anger. He also messaged her how he felt and how we had argued . He has been emotionally available . The very thing he made me remove my friend of years who I was talking to for support in bad times .
24 hours later he now has changed his mind and said that he calls every woman those names as he’s such a nice guy
He’s still Adament queefing means cheating he all saw an instagram post that verified it
I’m hurt and heart broken
I did nothing
I love this man to the ends of the earth and I’ve been loyal
I’m broken help.