u/Amazing-Natural3264

So to start with I am a 20 F and I am a first year medical student at my country’s top university, 3 years ago during the first time I took the college entrance exam I fell into deep depression and anxiety and even though I was I a top student my whole life I didn’t get the score I needed to go to med school, no one in my family showed me any support some felt bad for me and some just said nothing and moved on , but this also there was my cousin and her mom who were bad mouthed me on the family group chat saying really bad things that i am just a lazy person who is a big disappointment and some other things that were too much so I am not gonna even repeat them , and I was firm on the idea that I won’t go to any other school but med school so I decided to retake the exam, so during that year this cousin kept on saying these bad comments in every family gathering I never called her out because I was so exhausted from everything , both mentally and physically so I would just ignore her , fast forward results day this time I got a 98.95 which is incredibly high and would allow me to pick any school I wanted , I applied and got accepted and in university I am the 4.0 student , so my cousin isn’t the type who is academically passionate and that’s ok we all have different ways in life , but after I got accepted she kept saying she will join me next year as she is younger than me , I would just say keep the good work , you can do it . The results came back and her college entrance exam scores is super low , and to be honest with you I kinda saw it coming giving the fact she literally not studying at all most of the time , that day I came late as I had an afternoon exam at university, and before I got to the house ( her house as everyone was there to talk to her ) I made sure to hide my lap coat in my bag because I know how the day feels and even though she was mean to me I didn’t want to remind her or hurt her feelings, I got in the door and the minute she saw me she stated yelling at me with her mom saying I am the reason she didn’t get in I am the evil person here and much much much more yelling and crazy accusations, something in me snapped and I yelled back at her mom and said if your daughter is Don’t nothing but making TikTok’s and going out every single day and her books are cleaner than the white wall , and you have the audacity to call me the problem? Where you are nothing but an brat who is envying everyone one around them and you care the problem in everyone life , because people need to tolerate the entitlement you and your daughter show, maybe if you paid attention to your daughter as much as you did to your men she won’t have failed ( I know this line was abit too much but she kept mocking my mom for refusing to date after my dads passing and she always made these comments about my dad even after his death )and her husband was standing there saying thing because he found out she cheating and stayed for their daughter,