Ours was a love marriage, just a few months into the marriage seems like everything is not ok. My husband had wedding expenses that he is still taking care of which led him to not support our home after the wedding. I take care of the rent, groceries, our dogs food, etc. He does the utility payment. He doesn't help me with chores or cooking. Every time I ask him something he makes it into a big deal and into a tantrum which leads me to lose my calm.
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Eg, He doesn't do my car's gas and he takes my car when we go out without asking me for long distance travel and atm im not able to refuel my car as I used to because of how current situations are & when asked him why he couldn't ask, he erupted into an argument and made it an issue.
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The other day I asked him to enquire regarding a small thing for my side hustle when he is returning back from work and he erupts that he has his own work he has too much on his head and that he can't do this, meanwhile he does work things for his friend for free all the time. And he complains that I torture him when I tell him that he doesn't help me at home, financially or with the chores & even for my side hustle.
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I look at him as a toddler who throws things and tantrums and I lost all respect for him. I don't know what to do with this marriage. Do I fix this or do I leave?