I don’t know what to do anymore 💔💔
It’s been official since 2024 that I don’t have a genuine good friend. The problem with me is, Im a good person. I try to do whatever the person wants to stay friends with them but whatever I do, it’s never good enough to be someone’s first friend they think of. I never get invited anywhere as nobody thinks to invite me.
Basically: I am technically friends with a a lot of people, but I am nobody’s first choice. I am always that background friend that gets talked to once in a while and like whenever I see you I will speak to you yes I am your friend but I am nobody’s friend that people will go out of their way to speak to me or hang out whatever.
I don’t know if it’s something Im ping doing or it’s just genuinely the fact that at my age, everyone has already chosen their group of friends which they won’t let anyone into.
What can I do?