How to tell “NSA” buddy I’m out?
I’ve been seeing a guy around my age on the DL, for a few months now. We met on hookup site and what started off as a mutual NSA blow and go ended up being a 2-3 times a month thing. Mainly because the chemistry is good and we’re comfortable with each other since we’re both attached.
We exchanged numbers and he’d usually send me a discreet text indicating that he’s eager to meet and if I’m free I stop by. Very little talk, we get right into it and we’re done in 20-30mins, it’s always satisfying so no complaints there. He’s shy and won’t even say anything after we’re finished, just nods and smiles.
How do I tell him I don’t want to meet anymore while being respectful? I don’t think ghosting is the way to go.
I just want to move on. But if it helps: I’ve built guilt over time and decided to stop till I figure out what I want.
Edit: thanks everyone for the advice. I’ve let him know I’ve enjoyed our time but I need to stop as I’m feeling guilty and wished him the best. Hopefully he understands