Question about male behavior. So there’s this guy at my gym. One day he started talking to me in passing. Mostly just about that I was strong and my lifting impressed him.
We had that conversation a few times then it changed to him sitting on the equipment beside me and talking about anything really.
Then he made some (several) what seemed like testing comments about my body and how great I look and how I must get hit on all the time. Is he just being friendly or is he trying to hit on me? I honestly can’t tell.
Today he took like 30 minutes out of his workout to talk to me. One thing he said today when we’re talking was how he had to help friend work on their car and I was saying how that’s a very useful skill to have and I can’t even change a tire. But I’ve never had to. I’ve gotten a flat twice in my life and both times within minutes of getting out of my car someone stopped to do it for me and he he laughed and said no wonder look at you. If I saw you on the side of the road I’d stop and change your tire. Hell, I’d just give you the keys my truck.
But is he just being flirty. That doesn’t mean he likes me right ?
He also said I must get hit on all the time then he told me I “look better than 99% , no. 100% of woman. Especially here..” (We live in Appalachia. People are really overweight ). Is that a left handed compliment or what. He then made sure to tell me the days and times he works out. I just don’t want to overstep as I’m thinking about asking him out.
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