When I first moved into uni I saw this guy and thought he was really cute and as I’ve gotten to know him I think he’s really funny and sweet.
But I’m a little confused…
On multiple occasions he’s pointed out how I’m the same age as his younger brother but we only have a two year age gap. He says it in a weird deflection kind of way.
BUT! He texts me first a lot. We now also have little gimmicks just between us.
Also, I texted him at the clubs while drunk. I’d tried to get him to come out with me and my friends but he refused. I think it had something to do with the age gap thing, maybe? Plus, he might not like the clubs which is fine.
He said something about not fitting in and I said that’s okay because I like you and that’s all that matters. I meant in a caring friendly way, not thinking too deeply into it, just trying to cheer someone up. He texted me awhile later, “like like” or like. Holy fucking shit balls was I sweating. I asked him to clarify and he didn’t, so I did the ultimate move and changed the subject.
BUT! He now interacts with me differently. He almost goes out of his way to talk to me. For example, he drinks tea. He took his tea to his room and accidentally forgot something and had to come back. He was halfway up the stairs when he noticed me. He stopped to talk to me, then proceeded to walk down the stairs. He sat and listened to me rant about my assignment. He sat as close he could without being weird and the only way I can describe it is he looked like puppy getting a treat. There’s more instances like this as well.
My issue is that I don’t know how he interacts with others, so I don’t know if the way he is interacting with me is different because he likes me or if this is the way he interacts with everyone. I also haven’t seen him that much lately…
Anyone have some fail proof tips to help out!?