u/Ambitious-Cherry-484

My mother tried to tell me this isn’t a white dress?!?

My mother tried to tell me this isn’t a white dress?!?

I’m getting married in October and me and my mom have had multiple spats over wedding planning. She wants things one way, I tell her she’s not paying for it so she doesn’t get an opinion, back and forth constantly. One area we’ve debated over is her MOTB dress, we are both Choctaw and she told me that she wants a native dress for the wedding but hates Choctaw regalia, so she wanted to wear a “different tribes dress” (mostly just something suede with fringe) I told her no because it’s not our tribe and that’s disrespectful. We fought over it and I figured the matter was settled. Last night she sent me this dress as an option for her to wear and I shut it down immediately telling her she will not be wearing white to my wedding, and she told me “it’s not white it’s apricot” as if it’s not the lightest version of that color in existence. So I just wanted an outside opinion on this, am I crazy and turning bridezilla? Or was I justified?

u/Ambitious-Cherry-484 — 11 days ago