Me and my friend both started attending this new church about 2 years ago and became part of a friend group at the church. We all hang out every Sunday after church and have gotten quite close. There is a guy in our group that I have had a huge crush on the past 1.5 years, but I never let anyone know because I was still new to the church and I felt the Lord wanted me to focus on Him. Recently I have gotten a very big suspicion that my friend also likes him, it’s not confirmed but I’m pretty sure, which surprised me because I never got an indication before that she may like him. I am wondering what to do in this situation, I don’t plan on telling her that I like him and I’ve been thinking that her crush on him is between her and God and I don’t need to get involved. I also believe that if the Lord wants us to be together we will be, but I do get nervous now when I see them talking especially because she has been so shy this whole time and I haven’t seen her being more talkative to him before. I can’t tell if he likes either of us because he is very outgoing and likes talking to everyone, but I do catch him staring at me a lot if that means anything. Thoughts?
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I have become close friends with these two girls that are sisters at my church the last 2ish years, and I have developed a big crush on their brother, I’ve had this crush for about 1.5 years now. In the beginning I had no intentions on telling a soul about this crush. Lately I feel the Lord has allowed me and him to have more one on one conversations within the group, and I feel that one of his sisters has been picking up on this. My crush is very outgoing and loves talking to people, he always stares at me but I can’t tell if he’s interested in me or not. I was wondering if it would be wise to let his sister know that I am interested in him. I don’t expect anything back from him, but I thought it would be nice if someone close to him knew that I enjoy talking to him and would like to get to know him more romantically. I’m pretty close with his sister and she is very open and understanding so I don’t think any malice would arise from this, but I’m more concerned about what the repercussions could be if I tell her.