Emotional Abuse ft Truman Show
Ex has full custody of first child because I was shit basically. EA started with The Truman Show type allegations. That was 10 years ago, still happens now.
Am I alone in this?
I cannot tell what is delulu's and what is emotional abuse most of the time.
Most of the emotional abuse is when I ask to se me my oldest child in a reliable, stable, consistent time manner.
He frequently cancels, told me I cannot ring until 10am, but frequently dont text till 11am+, says he is hungover or the house is a mess despite knowing I will contact him every 2 saturdays or knows of pre-arrangements for the sundays. I am lucky if I see him once a month. We live 2 hours away by bus or train and I have a toddler now. I was seeing them more and I do ask for more, but he cancelled the regular weeklys and still refuses me time alone let alone overnights.
I am cleared from SS and stable.