[M4F] MT
32M/ single father raising two solo. I have been single for a little over a year now, completely by choice I may add. Life’s hard, relationships are difficult and raising children to be what you want for them is impossible.
I have been raising my oldest two kids on my own for the past two years. It has been the most difficult/rewarding years of my life. I’m divorced twice, started way too young and I am completely fine being single.
That being said, I do worry about what my future looks like. I worry that three kids, two ex wives and zero desire to have another leads me to a lonely life.
I guess I’m just curious how many out there would:
A: seriously date a single father of 3 with two failed serious relationships, knowing he isnt willing to procreate anymore and isn’t keen on the idea of wedding.
B: know where I’m coming from, have been there and ended up with a happy, not so lonely life.
I am very seriously caught In between acceptance of being alone forever and having hope I may find my person. Give me some hope or a daunting reality check. Either way it is helpful and appreciated.