r/R4R30Plus

Hi I'm Kitty, I won't entertain the idea of anything beyond friendship until after I'm beat friends with someone, so please don't message me if that's your only goal.

Career:

I am a musician and producer of a music band

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Boundaries:

NO Religion, NO Politics, CONSENT is required.

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Interests:

Music, Art, Robotics , Programming , Photography, Generative Art.

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If you are prejudice against generative art, we won't get along. My music is 50/50 human/machine because I am a programmer and generative artist.

If you message me, introduce yourself please.

I get lonely at night and snuggling with the dog isn’t the same as a man. I don’t want a chat partner. I don’t want long distance. I want to touch you and kiss you.

About me: no kids, never married. Stable job. Mortgage. I publish poetry books on the side. I hope to publish a memoir about my life. I have a fiction novel in the works. I started a YouTube channel of me reading my original poetry. I love music and love seeing shows.

I’m happy to exchange pictures because I need to be attracted to you and I want you to be attracted to me. I have blue eyes, brown hair, larger chest, thick thighs. I’ve been working on my fitness and have lost almost 40 lbs. I’m finally back in the 140’s.

My end goal would be to find someone who wants to get married and raise kids with.

Based in Canada EST and prefer someone with a similar or close time zone. SFW only.

I like to try different things and am willing to learn things I don’t know. I hope to find someone similar to me. I am a relatively introverted person. Maybe I will be a little shy at the beginning, but I think you will feel that I slowly open my heart after we get to know each other. I am single, so I welcome letters from single people, but even becoming friends is a good choice. I'm also recently planning my trip to Europe, if you are from Europe that would be great too, of course I welcome conversations from anyone, please tell me your age, where you are from and if you read this, wish you good luck

Basically I’m a millennial nurse on the verge of burnout so I’m looking for a nice distraction!

A little about me, like I said I’m 37, love true crime, paranormal, ummm darker sense of humour (thanks COVID), I can pretty much chat with anyone about anything. I love camping, being out in the mountains, 420 friendly.

What I’m looking for, please be single, be able to carry a conversation (but I also get we both have lives so I don’t expect responses right away just eventually please), North America preferred just doe to time zones…

Idk what else to say! Send me a message and let’s see where it goes!

…seeks cute stoner suburban dad.

Anyone out there?

I like Costco runs and tending to my garden as well as popping a gummy and being cozy on the couch.

Couch ✔️Gummy ✔️

Now I need some good conversation!

Bring the wit and banter and maybe a bit of dark humor…

Intrigued? DM me with some substance.

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The search for my Dragonborn continues. Skeevers, milk drinkers, and lollygaggers need not apply.

It’s not easy being a woman in Skyrim. I used to be an adventurer like you, until I took an arrow to the knee. Now, I study at the Bard’s College in Solitude. But I can tell my stories anywhere.

It would be an honor to serve you, my Thane. To welcome you home from some great adventure with a home cooked meal… Elsweyr fondue, salmon steak, or potato soup with garlic bread. After all, we have a greater chance of survival with a Lover’s Comfort bonus.

Let’s build our own cozy little Tundra Homestead. I have no children, but I hear we can adopt up to two at Honorhall Orphanage, if you choose. Otherwise, my Khajiit needs a papa.

Don’t keep me waiting too long, my love. Sharing life with you will be Sovngarde on Nirn.

Hey you. How’s it going? Solo night for me. There’s only so much Daniel Caesar I can sing to myself before I need human interaction. Join me?

Some things about me: I broke my left foot twice in one year. My dog and I both have the same autoimmune disease because she’s my bio baby. I love Tiny Desk Concerts, read a lot, and have a love/hate relationship with my job. Once, LL Cool J looked me up and down outside a bodega and smiled. I believe that if “film”’is a hobby then so is tv. I’ve interviewed a serial killer. Proud owner of two large dimples and a millennial side part. Low capacity for bullshit but high capacity for forgiveness.

Looking for a guy in a similar sitch, which is bored but not looking for anything life changing or romantic. Let’s just shoot the shit and make each other smile. The fun is in going with the flow, so let’s just have an organic convo and get to know each other.

Come say (more than just) hi :)

Please be 35+ (unless you look like Paul Newman in Cool Hand Luke or are Jacob Elordi)

Indian and divorced.

Please don't start a conversation with just hi/hello, but with age, place, and work.

Strictly decent.

Love long conversations.

Don't wanna share too much personal info like pic, name etc

Age Preference: 28 to 34

Looking for something serious maybe.

Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)

Hey y’all! I’m from the Deep South, US. However, only values I take from that is being polite and having a sense of honor. I’m no southern belle, unless that could include a closet full of all black, decked out skin art with a passion for anything rock music. I work in Public Health(Medical) and it’s one of the most rewarding things I’ve ever done in my life. My personality is INFP( startin’ to make sense ain’t it?)

I have a variety of interests and am never afraid to try something new. I have an insatiable thirst for knowledge, but when I’m home I prefer to be goofy and absolutely bat shit bonkers funny. Did you know that laughing is your brains way of naturally releasing endorphins? Yeah, got a whole slew of those fun facts going toe to toe in my brain. I can’t always promise you they will be useful, but it’ll keep you on your toes and make you go hmmmm.

Finally, life is hard enough as is, I’m no stranger to the struggle. If things don’t match up or work with ya, I ain’t gonna be mad at ya and we’ll go on our merry ways. Life’s too short and ain’t no sense in beating a dead horse!

Hopefully that made you laugh in a sense, my southern draw ain’t that exaggerated but makes for great story telling! See y’all around 😊

It is a slow day today and can I have someone who’s willing to have a call just to kill time.

I’m a doctor, day and night.
Bout you (30-40), decent, not married or in a relationship pls, we don’t want that mess lol

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Just having one of those weird nights. Struggling to sleep. Sick of doomscrolling. Might be fun to yap with someone interesting. I’m open to most topics and pretty easy to talk to. D.iscord only 🙂

I have recently come to several conclusions - one, that I never met the person I was supposed to meet because I did not start living the life I was meant to live until fairly recently. And two, that having an ice cream cone all to oneself is the loneliest experience.

I now live the life I dreamed about for so long - but it has cost me. The man I married could not compete with the excitement and richness of what I experience on most days of the week. He became insecure, and our marriage fell apart.

Some men think I am attractive. Some don’t. I don’t look nearly my age. I am not everyone’s cup of tea, but I’m very athletic. I am pale with green-eyes. I speak several languages and wish I spoke more.

I loved someone after the end of my marriage, loved fiercely. My heart has been pulverized over and over again. Still, it is so awesome to be alive and to have eyes and look at everything, and ride motorcycles, and go to punk shows, and try new foods, pet strange dogs, make love, take risks, defy the powerful, run with the hunted, make coffee while camping after waking up cold in the morning and not be alone for it, and to have a witness.

I couldn’t believe I found his tape recorder.

He said I’d never find it.

Jokes on him.

There I was with my heart pounding out of my chest.

Did I have the courage to accept what I was about to hear?

Could I live with what came next?

With one deep breath, I closed my eyes and pressed play…

A message cracked through the speaker…

“We’ve been trying to reach you about your car’s extended warranty.”

You: clever, cute, emotionally literate, capable of banter.
Me: curls, thin, tattoos, and the unreasonable confidence of someone who alphabetizes seeds for fun.

Please be funny.
Hot is common. Appreciated, sure. Funny is a renewable resource crisis. I’m looking for the kind of conversation that starts with heavy sarcasm and ends with us discussing whether free will is real.

Heya! I am a 34 year old graphic designer who has been feeling lonely, so I am looking for a deeper connection with another human being. My current situation has been on the rocks for so long. I'm just hanging on by a thread some days, and am tired of feeling so alone. So here we are.

I just want to have someone who looks forward to talking to me as much as I look forward to taking to them. Someone I can tell all of my secrets to, someone that can handle the deeper conversations, and also just laugh and goof around with.

I enjoy reading, writing, drawing, playing videogames (super into RPGs, and have also have been playing mostly World of Warcraft here lately as I am an officer in an RP guild that we started up), being outdoors, and I may or may not have an extensive plushie collection. I have two boy cats that I am more than happy to share pictures of.

Does any of this sound appealing? Are you also looking to for someone to connect with on a deeper level? Then please shoot me a message! I am looking forward to meeting you. :)

So bored and looking for someone kind to chat with while I’m at work. Send me a message if you’re interested & interesting to chat with.