is my father really cheating or oa lang ako?
hi fellow panganays!
for context:
He is currently an active member of the military, and di ako pinanganak kahapon para hindi ko malaman na there have been salary increases sa hanay nila these past years. He spends most of his days sa kampo, his essentials are well provided as well but ang hindi magrasp ng utak ko ay yung wala lagi siyang pera when it comes to us (his family). Sinanla niya pa sa kung kanino yung atm niya for 50k back in 2023 and until now di pa natutubos when continous naman siyang nagkakapera (his bonuses and sometimes he would loan). Another thing, kapag nagkakapera siya, he would not give the entire amount to my mother (who handles our finances) and would only give her a fraction. Magagalit pa siya kapag naubos na yung money na para bang wala kaming needs and other essentials na need bilhin. There was a time na he forgot to log out his account sa old phone niya and my mother tried to skim through his chats and he got mad when he found out. Mahilig din siya mag-erase ng convo for no apparent reason and there have been unsaved numbers calling through his phone.
Some random day, bigla ko naisip na what if hindi naman niya sinanla yung atm but nasa kabit niya? haha mababaliw na ako kaiisip wataef