DATING MY BEST FRIEND'S SISTER
I really need some advice on this matter, maybe from someone with a similar experience.
Let me fill you in on the context real quick. My best friend since elementary school has a little sister, but I never really got to know her because all I ever did was hang out with her brother. I mean, she knew me as her brother’s best friend, but that was pretty much it.
Everything changed years later when both of us were assigned as youth movement administrators at our church. I became the leader, and she was my secretary.
I never planned on falling in love with her. In fact, at the time, I was actually in love with another girl from church, and she (Bestfriend's little sister) was kind of like my wingwoman. She was always willing to listen whenever I talked about that girl. Other than that, we also shared stories about our lives, like our experiences with strict parenting, our interest in LEGO, and a bunch of other things.
Long story short, things didn’t work out with the other girl, but I still kept talking to my secretary (my best friend’s little sister). We got closer over time, and one day we had a “moment.” That moment made both of us realize that we had feelings for each other.
Four days later, we started dating.
Honestly, everything happened so fast. I wasn’t even planning to confess that day, but I still don’t see it as a mistake. I’m grateful that we were able to be honest about our feelings.
But now I don’t know how to tell my best friend about it.
Her parents are actually pretty chill and kind of gave us the green light already. They still don’t officially know about our relationship yet, but they’ve started getting suspicious because of how much closer we’ve become.
The funny thing is, they never told her to stop. In fact, they told her:
“The way he looks at you is the look of love. It’s obvious that he has feelings for you… You shouldn’t get close to other boys*.”*