u/AnimatorBubbly7386

Hi everyone, I’m (22M) currently in a LDR with a girl (21F) I’m serious about. The past almost 3 months (almost) have been going well very smoothly, we have never argued and I’ve always tried my best to communicate with her to prevent the need to argue. Recently however it slowly feels like she’s pulling away, we usually tell each “I love you” and “goodnight” before we go to sleep we’d play games and we’d watch shows and movies together, a good part of everyday is giving her paragraphs long tell her that I love her and that she’s the best part of my day. We have a 15hr time difference so to me communication is important, recently I told her that some of the reels she likes about her ex makes me feel like I’m not doing enough, and it makes me worried when she doesn’t tell me about her problems and asked her if we could do something about it. She told me she’ll stop liking posts about those and she told me that I need to be more confident and like less of negative posts about my poor self esteem, so we both acted on it. However recently she’s stop saying “I love you” and rather seems disconnected, I told her too before that of she needed space I’d give it to her if she asks. Now it just feels like we’re drifting apart, I admit I’m very intense on about giving her love and affection, I also admit I get very clingy but she never really tells me and prefers me to annoy her instead of giving her space. I’m starting to feel like there’s another person in the relationship and it’s starting to get to me, I promised a future with her and I don’t want to go back on my promises I love her very much and I don’t want to spend my life with someone else. She’s also the type of person to not tell her problems due to family issues, I told her I’ll always be there for her when times get hard and I don’t intend to leave her. I love her very much, and I never let my ego get in our relationship, and tell her that my sweet and caring side is only for her and no one else. I’ve also told her before if she ever falls out of love with me I can leave and to just tell me. I’m going to have a talk to her about it in a few days waiting till she gets better as she is sick, and see how she feels about our relationship. I love her very much and I don’t ever intend to stop loving her but if it’s clear that she doesn’t feel the same way anymore I’ll leave. I love this girl with all my heart so now I feel the need to ask for all the help with everyone who’s been in the same situation. Thank you everyone!