36 [F4A] Online Reflecting on 10 years of an open relationship/marriage
My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for 6, and have been open the entire time we've been together. When we first met, we were both seeing other people casually and started seeing each other casually as well. As time went on, we got more serious but also didn't want to give up our sexual independence. We both had previous experience in open relationships and gave it a shot and it has worked out wonderfully since!
We keep this side of our lives very private, and no one in our personal lives knows about this side of us. We live a very sexual lifestyle but manage to balance it well and keep it quiet. I'm posting mostly as a chance to openly talk about it since I never really get to talk about it with "regular" people.
There have been highs and lows to living this lifestyle. The highs obviously being all the fun and excitement we've had with various partners over the years. The lows include some heartbreak when special partners moved on, or tinges of jealousy when my husband is with someone I think is exceptionally attractive. But we've always worked through things by communicating! The spectrum of our dynamic over the years has also been fun, going from being very independent play, to sharing together, to hotwifing.
I would love to chat with fun, open minded, and curious people who have experience or are interested in the lifestyle and are conversational!