u/Annual-Difficulty-18

I am 2024 BCA passout. Currently working in Master data management (MDM) since last 1 year. And upskillng to make a switch into data analytics Now I am planning to go for a master's degree.

- I am considering an online Masters rather than a full time. Is this valuable (As skills are above any degree)

- I am confused between pursuing MCA vs MBA

- I might consider appearing for MBA exams (CAT, GMAT, GRE) in future 3-4 years later probably becoz right now I am not eligible.

- if online which university and degree should I choose. And what criteria I should keep in mind.

- online vs offline degree pros and cons as I am not considering leaving my job.

Any Suggestions and guidance is appreciable. Thanks.

I have been in a relationship for the last 4 years now. Like we met in college. that time I just know every person in his life even I know now. Now we meet sometimes in a week like once or twice in a week as we both were busy in our jobs and can't meet daily. We still manage to call on a regular basis. Even I visit his place sometimes too. So basically I just want to check his phone and Instagram. But he carries his phone everywhere even he poops with his phone.

before anyone judges I trust him a lot but I think I just trust him blindly. I just overthink a lot about it sometimes and it just creates a spiral of overthinking in my head. Like I also feel cheating on me might be so easy if someone wants to as I am a low drama introvert girl. I just don't want to make him feel pity about what I overthink. As my gut says nothing is wrong but my mind says just in case. Like every other one says mine is different but that turns out to be their worst heartbreak ever.

Suggestions please how you make sure you are the only girl in his life.

I had irregular cycles for around the last year. My cycle lengths have ranged from around 35-45 days to even 55-59 days sometimes. I also have mild acne and thin hair (since childhood). No major sudden weight gain/loss though but still I gained 2-3 kg.

A few times in the past year I also experienced light spotting between periods. Recently I got my period after 59 days on April 11. Then around May 6 I noticed a tiny amount of dark brown/reddish discharge (mostly visible while wiping, not proper flow). Last night I had sex and today I started bleeding more properly not too much (like few drops), but it doesn’t fully feel like my normal period.

The bleeding after sex has happened before too occasionally, sometimes within 24-48 hrs after sex, sometimes later, and sometimes not at all. BTW I am sexually active last 3 years now but never experienced any spotting first 2 two years. Such issues are last 1 year but I didn't feel any pain while intercourse. Even that spotting also happens without any any sex also.

I’m wondering, is this anything serious.

I do plan to see a gynae, just wanted to hear experiences from people who have gone through similar things because Google is sending me into a horror movie spiral 😭