u/AnnualFearless629

This is my first ever relationship and I'm learning a lot and I realized that relationships come with a lot of responsibility and being there for one another. I am 17f and I tend to put a lot of pressure on myself when getting gifts. My bf 18m's birthday is coming up and I feel so clueless on what to get him?!! I feel bad directly asking since I feel like I should know him well enough to know that, but at the same time I feel so worried that he's going to be disappointed or dislike the gift, or if he thinks I went overboard. I feel like I am overthinking this wayyyy too much, but I'm not sure what to do? Does anyone else feel this way in relationships? And what should I do and what do I even get him? I was thinking about buying him a vinyl and a record player (off marketplafe), but I'm not even sure if he'll like it but he loves music! Idk I think i may just be spiraling. What are your guys' opinions? And advice? (I also havent gotten my first pay check yet)