u/Anon_chat_User

▲ 2 r/ToxicFriends+1 crossposts

HELP!!! I NEED to unfriend this toxic person, but I don't know how to do it (we are in highschool)

I don't know how to tell her I'm unfriending her, since we are in the same class and sit right next to eachother. She drains my energy every time I talk to her, because she ALWAYS complains!! And when she comes to me to vent about shit, yeah, I listen, but when I tell her something that she doesn't wanna hear she snaps at me .

I asked if she had boundaries but she said she has none, which is obviously not true. She makes me feel guilty for things that aren't even my fault, tried to drag my BOYFRIEND into her and her ex's business (she is obsessed with her ex, it was on the point of borderline harassment), my bf is tired of her so he is gonna cut her off. Also It's like I'm her therapist, or diary. I can't remember the last time she asked how my day has been.

Oh, and i let her borrow 2 chargers and i havent gotten them back, so i texted her (it was 7 am) "Good morning ______! If you're gonna be at school today could you please bring me back my chargers?" But then I get texts saying: "wow. That's all you texted me for? No hi how are you? Only texting me cause you want something from me. ..." but in reality, I ask how she is a lot! And I get to the point in my texts. Especially since it was 7 am. She got pissy at me for that and even when I explained that I didnt mean to come off as rude and explained my reasoning, she was still mad at me. Oh, and i still havent gotten my chargers. (Omg i went off track)

Anyway, how do I tell her I wanna unfriend her? Low-key scared of her or what she would do, cause she is su!dal and basically everyone at school hates her (good reason too) cause she lied online and said her ex (different ex) graped her and abused her (she admitted it was false after) but yeah, that's just one of the things she has done.

And today she called my boyfriend an asshole (cause he said she was annoying him when she was spamming him.) And I said nicely that i don't appreciate her calling him names, and she muttered 'you're an asshole too' like tf???

She also expects me to read her mind omg. She mentioned her sister and im like, "you have a sister?" And she said "well you don't talk to me anymore so you wouldn't know.'' When in reality, I texted her multiple times and she didn't read my texts. Jeez she is a handful.....

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u/Anon_chat_User — 12 days ago
▲ 1 r/Prom+1 crossposts

Please help me 😢 😭 I'm not allowed to go to prom anymore, and we got the dress and ticket and everything. It's on May 15, so in about 7 days. I'm not allowed to go because I lied to let a friend sleep over (has a bad mental state (iykyk) and just went through a breakup. She SelfH. She said she didn't wanna be alone so I invited her to stay the night since she lived a 30 min drive away)

anyway, my mom found out (she said no earlier and told her to take an Uber. It was 9 pm at the time. She found out around 10:30.) So, she got pissed. I ignored her calls (she is in australia on vacation. I'm in ontario.) So she got my neighbor to come to our door with my mom on the phone. Anyway my friend was close to a panic attack from the yelling, so I told her to go to my room.

Anyway, my mom THREATENED TO CALL THE POLICE if she didn't leave the house in 10 seconds, and keep in mind it was 11PM AT NIGHT. THEY KICKED OUT A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL. so after a huge argument between me and my mom, my friend left in tears. Despite her leaving the cops were called anyway, for a 'child in crisis'.

Timeskip, she was taken home by the cops at around 1 in the morning. So yea, it was a shitty thing. And i was sobbing the whole night. The next day I get the news im no longer allowed to attend prom. This was a week and a half ago. I have been crying every single night and i was begging them to let me go. I even apologized sincerely. Why the hell should I be punished this severely for not wanting my friend to do sekkpuu? (She has tried it in the recent past)

so now I need to convince my parents to let me go to prom. And my stupid brothers wont back me up on this, even though all i asked is for them to say 'hey, you should let her go to prom". So yea, i need help on how to convince them. (I am a 17 year old female. so is my friend)

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u/Anon_chat_User — 15 days ago