u/Antique_Walrus5259

This is for the younger men. You’re lonely. You want a gf. Lekin larki ap se baat hi ni krti. You don’t know how to start a conversation. You think you’re not good looking enough. Not tall enough, not rich enough, not fit enough, not gora enough. Be not afraid sonion.

1)- The first step is to work on yourself. No, I do not mean go on a wight loss drop shipping sigma grindset. Just stop. Take a breather. You are good enough. YOU have to believe it. Yes, you’re flawed. Work on those flaws but don’t punish yourself for being human gng.

2)- Now, the harder part. You need to see women in a new light. They are not unicorns, they are not mermaids, they are not some mystical creatures. They’re just like you. People. Do not put them on a pedestal like a simp. Do not demean them like an incel. Think of them like you would think of your sangi. Abandon the sexism.

3)- Now go talk to one. No, they won’t file an FIR (most of the time). Just be respectful. Be nice. The odds will be in your favour if she’s from your workplace or class or social circle or whatnot. “Lekin mere social circle me to sirf londe hain” then expand your circle brotato 🥀

4)- Get to know her. Be sure that you’re not desperate (let’s be real, you ARE desperate). Just don’t make a choice BECAUSE of the desperation. Do you like this person? Can you imagine spending a day with them? A week? A month? A year? Several? Are they a good person? Are they fun?

5)- Confess your feelings. Yes, confess. No, not immediately, take a good while. Varies from person to person, but I’d suggest a couple months at least. Odds are, you will get rejected. Idc. Do it anyways. Get rejected. Be sad. Then get up and try again (On a different person, do not harass a girl if she says no, accept her answer, respect it and move on 🔊). No, do not wait for a confession, you have to be brave enough to do it yourself.

6)- Bonus point: Have a personality. Find one, build one, steal one idc. Just have a personality. Have opinions. Have interests, hobbies, hopes and dreams. It makes you more attractive. Not just to girls, it makes you a more charismatic person.

7)- Bonus point #2: Looks DO matter. You want a pretty gf, right? Well she wants a good looking guy too. Go to the gym. Take care of your skin. Wear nice clothes. Get a nice haircut.

Do NOT give in to the blackpill my guy. You, yes YOU, can do it. Feel free to ask about anything else, or share your personal experiences.