u/Anxious_Corgi_6282

Hi everyone! I have one amazing child who is 14 months old. When I was pregnant, I was absolutely sure I never wanted to be pregnant again. In the trenches, I was absolutely sure I never wanted a second child. Both my husband and I still feel strongly we don’t want another child, but we’re still in the “hard” stage, so many people tell me to wait longer until it’s “easy” to see if I change my mind. I’m wondering when other people who are OAD by choice knew definitively they were done and if they felt like they had to wait a certain amount of time to make that decision!