Lost 70 pounds on my way to 135 pound goal. Terrified of loose skin ruining my chances with women.
I’ll keep it short and sweet.
I’m 31m. I started in May at 355 pounds. I weighed in at 285 this morning. My goal is to end at 220 pounds and start dating for the first time in my life. I’ve never had a relationship… but as soon as I’m 220 and am more palatable I’m going to try.
I’m just worried about loose skin. I eat a shit ton of proteins, im fairly young, I strength train, walk a ton and I don’t have much too speak of just yet, but I know that how heavy I was, it’s going to be pretty much a given.
I’m terrified I’m going to do all this work to experience companionship and still be not good enough. I’m terrified I finally get into bed with a woman and she loses interest.
I know a lot of people say you gotta lose weight for yourself and not others an I agree. But I just want to give my younger self something he never got… a chance to be loved and be wanted. I really don’t want to be lonely but becagsd if loose skin.
Any thoughts or words of wisdom?