HELP. idk if im a crazy girlfriend or if this is valid
BASICALLY
me and my boyfriend are long distance. we dont get to see each other much, but because of his job in the military we also dont get to talk much unless he is off.
but when he is off work he is usually running around with his two friends (who are girls btw).
i've expressed to him that i like being updated about where hes going cause idk. i would like to know his plans and where hes at and that hes safe and alive. this is something he was like "oh yeah i could do that for you"
except. he hardly ever does.
bro literally goes MIA almost every time he goes out. im not asking him to be on his phone and be talking to me 24/7 but it gets really irritating when i text him asking him something and he doesnt respond for three hours. or he tells me hes gonna run to the store real quick then two hours later i find that hes at a bar or at dinner and i had no idea about any of it
and he always says hes sorry and that he didnt hear his phone or see the notification or that he was busy and just wasnt on it, but even then. he didnt think about me even once in the whole time he disappeared to check and see if i texted him? or to text me first?
its all rather irritating and idk if im just being clingy or hes being suspicious or what