How do I approach my bf's ex bf?
I just discovered my bf is still talking to his ex bf during our relationship. at first i didn't know na ex nya yung friend niya na un but I had the strangest feeling that it is and he's lying to me so one time while he's asleep I went through his pc (I know it's wrong pero my curiosity got the best of me im sorry) and saw the videos of them na super sweet.. my bf giving gifts to his 'ex' and more videos and photos of them being super sweet and unboxing hironos, sobrang nainggit ako and naiyak I felt like I ruined something beautiful because all these happened just 2 weeks before we met last March.
I confronted him about it and he confirmed na it is his ex and that he is sorry he lied, he was just protecting our relationship na ako daw yung mahal niya etc. i tried breaking up with him but he begged me and cried to me for the first time, na di niya ako kaya mawala and he never cheated. He never fucked him or fucked anyone after me.
I'm not sure I can still trust him after everything that happened but I still want to because I really do love him that's why I want to talk to his ex bf and confirm stuff that is still bothering me like, naging kabit ba ako? did I ruin their relationship? did they fuck while we're together? I wanna approach him nicely. I followed him on IG but he haven't followed back. how do I approach this?