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Twice na ako naofferan ng sponsorship/sugar bb. Noong una, ang promise ay "clean" setup. Walang kapalit, nanghingi lang picture to check kung trip nila ko. Fortunately, pasado naman looks ko sakanila. Sabi pa sumasaya lang daw talaga sila pag may napapasaya silang ibang tao. Nakakabasa naman na ako ng ganitong posts dito sa Reddit pero mahirap pa rin paniwalaan.

Skeptical ako, pero sponsor na ang lumalapit, aayaw pa ba ako? Pumayag ako. Legit din naman na nageenjoy ako makipagkwentuhan. Lalo na mas matatanda sila sakin. Ive grown to realize attracted pala ako to people much older than me. Parang madami silang baon na kwento kaya madali sakin makipagusap sakanila. Parang tropa lang. It was fine at first. Kwentuhan, kulitan. Friendship na may kasamang pangsspoil. Ang ideal diba? Bilang lalaki na expected maging provider, masarap din pala na ako naman nakakatanggap. Ang saya.

Pero eventually, unti-unti nang pumapasok yung mga "requests." Selfie muna, tapos video call, hanggang sa nagiging sexual na. Topless, bulge, hanggang dick pics. Minsan pabiro pero halatang yun talaga ang gusto nilang mangyari. Hindi ko rin naman sila masisisi totally. Pag pinaggagastusan ka kasi, parang nabubuo yung sense of entitlement nilang humingi ng kapalit. I get it. Ang problema ko lang dun ay natanong ko naman na nung una pa lang kung sexual ba ang kapalit ng pagbibigay nila. Hindi naman daw. Ang off lang kasi hindi naman 'yun ang initial na usapan. Disappointing na as usual and as expected, sa libog din pala ang bagsak ng lahat.

Sayang lang. Gusto ko sana mag focus sa passion ko as an artist without worrying about money. In an ideal world, sana mayroon talagang tao na willing sumuporta sa growth mo as tao lang just because they believe in you at gusto ka nila as a companion, hindi dahil gusto ka nilang hubaran.

Hindi ko alam kung masyado lang akong idealistic. I guess I’m just saying na be straightforward kung magaalok kayo ng ganitong setup. Sayang ang nainvest na time at nabuong connection e.

I'm not really looking for one but I'm open only IF decent. Just sharing my story (now that I have enough karma. lol)

I just discovered my bf is still talking to his ex bf during our relationship. at first i didn't know na ex nya yung friend niya na un but I had the strangest feeling that it is and he's lying to me so one time while he's asleep I went through his pc (I know it's wrong pero my curiosity got the best of me im sorry) and saw the videos of them na super sweet.. my bf giving gifts to his 'ex' and more videos and photos of them being super sweet and unboxing hironos, sobrang nainggit ako and naiyak I felt like I ruined something beautiful because all these happened just 2 weeks before we met last March.

I confronted him about it and he confirmed na it is his ex and that he is sorry he lied, he was just protecting our relationship na ako daw yung mahal niya etc. i tried breaking up with him but he begged me and cried to me for the first time, na di niya ako kaya mawala and he never cheated. He never fucked him or fucked anyone after me.

I'm not sure I can still trust him after everything that happened but I still want to because I really do love him that's why I want to talk to his ex bf and confirm stuff that is still bothering me like, naging kabit ba ako? did I ruin their relationship? did they fuck while we're together? I wanna approach him nicely. I followed him on IG but he haven't followed back. how do I approach this?

Hi evryone! im 22 (M) and as the title says i just experienced my first threesome and with a couple too. They are 22 (M) and 28 (M) and couple na sila for 4 years.

So I went to their house na, fyi im a bottom and they are both versa so i expected ako yung mag sasatify sakanila but damn i was wrong.

We cuddled for a little bit and it was a little awkward at first. Pero when we started kissing na dun na nag start mag init.

We started to undress each other while keeping mag kiss and take turns sila humalik sakin. All attenion was on me which i did not expect, they made sure i feel everything. While im kissing the other guy yung isa will suck my nipples or my neck. At this point I started to pre-cum na because how good makipag halikan sakanila. Then they started to suck me which is even more good and they are both so good at it. Ginawa nila akong toy lol salit salitan sila to suck me which i really enjoyed. I didn't even saw them kiss each other hahaha ganon sila ka focus sa katawan ko.

Ofcourse i sucked them one at a time too, i did not expect that i would enjoy threesome so much i think i cant go back whahahha. So yun na nga we were so busy satisfying each other it was the best, no awkwardnes, they know when to kiss me and who will suck my dick, it was pure horniness it was so good. It was also my first time to enjoy recieving blowjob (i think im turning into a top).

And yeah nag decide na kami mag palabas and while nagjajakol ako, the other bf is kissing me and the other one is waiting for my cum since he likes to swallow. And yeah kitang kita ko pag swallow nya which was so hot (1 week na ko di nag jajakol so madami akong nilabas). He said it was sweet but it makes sense since wala naman akong bad habit. Also nagpalabas na rin sila while im kissing them.

HERE COMES THE BEST PART

we are meeting again this monday and we are planning to have sex. I never tried mag top pero i said i want to, mukhang ma ttry ko na siya sa monday wish me luck lol. They said we are gonna take turns to do it and mag train fuck kami which is one of my kink. If u guys want an update after we meet again, just let me know lol.

also im currently reviewing for board exams right now, so i dont know if this couple will distract me or help me relieve my stress every week? hahahaha thoughts everyone? that's all thank you for reading!

EDIT

update guys we will meet tom just for cuddles 👀 lets see what will happen hahaha

Comparisons... whenever I see hot/attractive guys, I feel really inferior. I've been doing the best I can to improve myself. I've been doing skincare, working out 5x a week, lots of sleep too. I sometimes feel attractive, but man, I feel ugly lots of time.

I think I'm missing the validation from strangers when I was using dating apps, haven't used it in months. I have received lots of compliments, but it does not fix anything at all. If I'm fine without it, why do I still yearn for it? I don't do hookups anymore. I deactivated my social media for a month na.

I've been really doing good these past few months. There were days na mababa, I got to survive naman. Pero, a few days ago, I shaved my facial hair and I feel really ugly ulit. Thoughts about my ex and his bf, my past hookups were freaking coming back to me. I don't know why, but suddenly they were in my head.

Why can't I feel handsome all the time? Instead of indulging in pity and self-criticism. I am really trying to love myself, but I don't think I can escape this anytime soon. I've been suffering from this for years now.

Matagal na ko may mga apps for porn pero kadalasan jakol lang tsaka nood. Pero tonight I discovered by accident na isa sa mga group na sinalihan ko meron palang video call. Pag pasok ko tangina, kahit alas dose na may mga lalakeng jakol na jakol pa din. Nakikita ko lang to sa mga bidyo bidyo dati eh. Kaya ayun triny ko buksan cam ko. Mas nakakalibog pala pag may mga kasama. Natuturn on din ako tuwing sinasabihan ako ng masarap tsaka may nagmumura pa. Usually post nut clarity hits me like a truck and regret a lot of things pero I don’t regret this at all. Coming from someone na lumaking wala masyado kaibigan tsaka insecure, it weirdly brightened up my day. Yung parang di lang siya tungkol sa libog, pati na rin siguro yung nakikita na talaga ako. Tsaka ang sasarap din nila. Sana wla nga lang mag post ng video baka matrace pa yung kwarto ko haha.

yeah, so how often? among platform kayo nanonood, and what type of porn?

ako, i watch on x, and usually kung ano lang yung lumalabas sa TL ko, yon lang pinapanood ko. but I came across a post saying that reddit porn is better daw. do you guys know any subs? reco some pls haha.

Share ko lang...

I (M21) met a guy (M35) online, and sobrang smooth ng conversation namin. We chatted for a couple of days until he asked if we could meet up and have some fun. I was quite hesitant because I’m not confident with how I look—an average-looking guy, regular build, 5’6”, moreno.

Pero kasi type ko naman siya, so I gave it a go haha.

I went to his hotel room. We talked for a bit, then we kissed—ang sarap niyang humalik, lol.

After sex, I went straight to the bathroom to wash up and planned to leave. I knew kasi na maa-attach ako sa kanya if I stayed longer. When I told him that I was going home, he asked me to stay for a bit for a quick cuddle (that’s how he takes care of his “bot,” daw). As a sign of respect, I agreed. When it was finally time for me to leave, he asked for my phone because he wanted to get to know me more. Of course, I gave it to him.

We continued seeing each other after that—dinners, coffee, just talking. We got to know each other more deeply. Later on, I found myself falling in love with him. I confessed, and he said he felt the same way.

His work (he’s a government employee) requires a lot of his time, and so does mine. There were times I asked for his attention, but he was busy. I kept sending him messages even when I knew he was working. (We weren’t official yet—we both agreed to take things slow.)

One time, I told him, “Baka hindi mo naman ako mahal kasi you’re prioritizing work over me,” which, honestly, my more mature self would disagree with now.

Later that afternoon, he picked me up for a dinner date. We talked a lot about life, and when it was time to go home, he broke the silence. He said, “I think hindi na magmamatch yung ‘tayo.’ You know how much I like you—that’s why I tried to get to know you. At my age, I could settle with you, pero you’re too young for me.”

That phrase still lingers in me up to this time—yung pagka-immature ko yung naghiwalay sa amin, lol. But I guess he was meant to come into my life to teach me a lesson.

I learned that insecurity can push people away. Yung pagiging unsure ko sa sarili ko made me demand more reassurance than what was fair for him, especially when he was already trying in his own way. If I had been more secure and patient, maybe things would’ve been different—or maybe not—but at least I would’ve handled it better.

There are really people who come into your life to help you grow and mature. I still see him sometimes, and I’m happy seeing how he’s doing.

As someone who has a very active digestive activity in the
morning, parang medyo alanganin for me yang morning sex.
Gusto kasi i try ng BF ko. Yung magigising nalang ako na kinakantot nya ako? Yan yung fantasy nya. Nyemas.

Any tips? 🥲

I initially thought na gigising ng maaga tas mag d-douch? OR what if mag kantunan nalang until dawn para morning sex na rin.
Le is che. Hahahaha.

for the longest time, i am masc-presenting and honestly, i don't have any problem with that naman hehe. i usually wear what men typically wear. most of the time, i pair my smyth polos with levi 501 jeans, or uniqlo shirts with cargo pants.

i’m not into loud fashion or super flashy ootds, (although open naman din ako kung sakali) i want something subtle with my outfit that makes me feel little more distinct from most men hehe.

i actually like smyth polos because of the minimal designs and details. they feel different from the usual polos i’ve bought before. so there's that pero i feel like there is something lacking with what i wear on a daily basis. is there anything that i can add from my ootd? accessories? or add something from my clothing? 

any advice? may pwede ba akong idagdag? accessories? layering? small details sa clothes? anything that can elevate a simple masc look without making it too loud?

kayo ba? how do you define your fashion sense/style? where do you buy your outfits? can you recommend me shops that sells good/unique/one of a kind clothes/acessories, it may be physical or online stores hehe.

you can also provide what make up/skin care na ginagamit niyo hehe. or any info that you think would be helpful.

btw i’m lanky and moreno. idk if that helps hehe.

pls be kind in the comment section. i'll appreciate any inputs ; )) thank uu!!

also... i really enjoy conan gray outfits! so thereeee. baka makatulong din.

To start off, I just want to say that I really enjoy eating ass, pero from the people I’ve been with, bibihira palang yung firm and plump yung ass (something na achievable if they frequent the gym).

So I’ve had this Twitter/X crush for the longest time who posts thirst traps of his ass. He has this huge, plump, and very spankable ass na once you see it, parang impossible na hindi mo siya pagnasaan if you’re into eating ass like I am. He usually posts things like “u want my big booty?” or “can I sit on your face?” - let’s call him Z.

Z has a huge following on X and rarely collabs with anyone, parang once in a blue moon lang compared to other X content creators.

This week, I finally tried reaching out to him and told him straight up that I wanted to eat his ass, medyo in a begging tone, which I think is what made him reply. He asked for pics, pero since hindi ako comfortable mag-send ng photos sa DMs, I sent my pictures through another app instead. He then replied, “asan yung paburat?”

I usually never send pics of my tool on any platform, but since I really want to taste and eat him out, I did.

It took him hours to view what I sent, but when he finally did, he replied, “sarap pink pink,” probably referring to the head of my tool since I'm not in any way fair-skinned. I replied, “ano, g? hahaha,” and “kahit upuan mo pa buong araw mukha ko, okay lang.”

I didn’t get any reply from him on the app, so I switched back to X to message him there. After sending another message, wala pa rin reply. I checked his profile and saw that he was actively posting, so I messaged again, “dedma na? hahaha.”

Hindi ko alam kung na-trigger siya or something, pero medyo naging rude na yung tone ng reply niya after that. Btw, I was really patient with him ah, I waited hours for his responses because I assumed baka busy lang siya, pero he just left me hanging without any closure on my end kaya todo hintay parin ako sa kanya.

After he replied, I said something like, “you can tell me naman if I’m not your type, para lang hindi ako naghihintay sa wala. I respect your preferences, at least be clear about it.”

He then replied, “okay" "pass po.” which honestly felt like such a bitch reply, pero I guess normal na talaga ‘to sa generation today.

Anyway, after that convo, akala ko dadalhin ko siya for a while, pero surprisingly hindi. I just thought, “it’s your loss 🤷*🏻‍*♂️,” turns out, rejection doesn’t hurt as much when you already know your worth.

Yun lang naman, sorry kung ang haba ng story bago makarating sa conclusion haha.

May issue na nang cheating jowa ko, kung sino sino kinakausap nya, and doon na din nagsimula na nagkaroon kami ng distance sa isat isa maybe because simula nung naging kami wala na talaga kaming sex ever at 1yr and 4 mos na kami, so ganon katagal na wala na kaming keme. Nung nalaman ko na may kalandian syang iba sa chat that’s the time na nafeel ko na mang cheat din, may mga nakausap ako at nakasex alam ko mali i just dont know ang purpose ko bat ko gnawa yon, pero natigil na and never na rin ako nangielam ng phone Nya until today, naiwan nyang bukas phone nya and nicheck ko at andami nyang kausap, like laswaan madalas pang sya ang nag iinitiate, siguro dahil may needs din sya na hndi ko naibibigay? Pero minsan nag ttry ako pagusapan yung about sa sex, pero di nya sineseryoso, ano na bang gagawin? May part sken na habang binabasa ko messages nila na aarroused ako i dunno, tangina ano bang relasyon to? Naguguluhan nako, feeling ko kaya kami nagsasama kasi convenient kami sa isat isa tangina pagmamahal pa ba to? Di ko alam anong gagawin ko, naawa ako makipag hiwalay kasi san sya ppnta? hayyyss i-offer ko na ba ang open relationship? EWAN DI KO ALAM, di ko rin sure kung nasasaktan ako di ko malaman ano nararamdaman ko

So i am like a balikbayan. Lived in Pinas til family moved abroad when I was 12.

Ethnic Identity wise, its been confusing. Outside Pinas I'm very Filipno, Pinoy pride, but in actual Pinas I think Im not Pinoy enough and others say it too.

That feeling that I dont belong or fit in pero Im in between. Saka I'm sad na hindi ko naexperience yung magka situations like yung mga stories of love or crushes or shipping etc. na nababasa ko sa reddit as part of growing up and journey with sexual identity sa Pinas. Kasi where I lived during teenage to now adulthood, Im not considered desireable because I'm not white. So besides being non-hetero, Im also not white and I always was very cautious because of racism and prejudice. So I lived quietly and reserved and I carried that into adulthood and I think its become a limiter instead or protecting me.

Now as an adult umuuwi ako sa Pinas every year. I wish I could do it more often and stay longer each time pero di talaga kaya cause I'm just regular worker/citizen abroad.

Also now, di ko masyado type mga puti like yung mga sobrang puti, yung mga pale skin and light eyes. I prefer olive/tan or darker skin tones and brown eyes. Type ko din asians lalo na if pinoy. My roots are in Bisaya so I get even more excited if a guy I like has some bisaya in him. I like guys na 5'7 or taller para di masyado masakit sa likod ko haha. Accepting BF applications in DMs. Charr

Problema ko lang ay madaming tao sa Pinas na they think na because taga ibang bansa na meaning nun mayaman na. So when I'm in Pinas its hard to develop a real relationship whether friendship or more, because Im cautious baka peperahan lang ako or something like that. And honestly, di naman talaga ako mayaman. Sapat lang ang pera na may ability to take vacations sa Pinas. So mahirap makahanap ng genuine friends and relationships. Its hard to find something real.

Tapos outside Pinas naman, I'm overlooked and undesired because I'm not white or I would get fetishized for being asian.

OR... baka sadyang ang pangit ko lang talaga kaya feeling ko di ako accepted in either realms. Like, I'm big and tall, like depending sa shoes I could be 6ft, chubby and juts(di naman super insecurity here kasi I'm a total bottom. Lol).

Pa help naman pls.

Is there a subreddit or community for people like me? Saan ba sa pinas ako makakahanap ng niche for people like me? I always stay in provinces Mindanao when I visit cause I hate big cities. Pero I'm willing to visit the cities. I go to Davao and Manila a lot. I want to meet and make friends with nonhetero ethnically divergent Filipinos like me. Or locals who understand where I'm coming from. I feel so lonely.

Next visit gusto ko pumunta sa mga gay bars or mga gay establishments. I love drag shows and stuff like that. I love drag race Philippines. So also feel free to drop recommendations whether around Manila Davao Cebu

So yeah.... advice and recommendations would be appreciated. Tenks

was on and off relationship with (wlw) my ex for almost 6 years and after that relationship i told myself na i’ll stay off any relationship and just focus on myself. it’s been 2 years and i’m starting to crave being loved,,, and i also miss doing the deed 🙂‍↕️ i tried dating app but it really isn’t for me and people say that i don’t look gay enough for women to notice me. I also look like im a bitch or masungit and they said that’s why people aren’t trying to gtm. I also don’t do social media. nakakafrustrate ha 😮‍💨

I hate how I’m feeling right now. I feel so defeated kasi yung roommate ko na inintroduce ko sa grindr meron nang ka talking stage— a 19 year old lasallian twink who he met on the app and I hate how he’s got all the attention my roommate had for me before. For context, we had a sexual NSA relationship before- me and my roommate. He was all over me because I was soo good. I don’t have feelings for him pero every time he goes out at night to meet this twink, I feel like a total idiot. Fuck this! Parang I feel so defeated and desperate for him to notice me, and notice how I’ve gone cold pero who would diba if you(my roommate) didn’t even like the person (me) in the first place? Shuta nakakainis. Dapat hindi ko siya binibigyan ng energy eh. Now before you all come for me, I tried to be supportive. I was even the one who told him to get back with that person now fuck me because I was the one who motivated my own doom. Now gabi-gabi na siyang pumupunta sa twink na yun while I’m here stranded on the apps, forgotten and miserable. Fuck this. I’m going out for my 10k walks. I need to touch some grass for being so toxic. But can you blame me? I’m just human.

p.s: we’re highschool friends and the same circle

Hi!

I have had this daddy fubu who is in his 40s already. Nagmeet kami sa g app last year pa. Fubu kami until last month, April.

After months of activities, I decided to detach dahil iba na yung nararamdaman ko. Hindi na lang siya sex lang or fun. Alam ko may feelings nang involve. My feelings became even clearer when I found out na may other fubu siya. Hindi ko alam kung normal na reaction lang yun as fubu or dahil na-attach na ako sa kanya.

This time, dahil alam kong for sex lang siya at walang balak pumasok sa relationship, I decided to distance myself na. I deleted my telg. account just so he can't message me kasi alam kong hindi ako makakapag no kapag nag invite siya. I feel bad for not letting him know about it and just vanished without a word.

Anyways, he is a t and I'm the b.

Go for It, Nakamura! ang english name ng anime

Kung droga ang kilig, na overdose na ako nito.

It's just so wholesome and relatable; the art style makes everyone look good, and the show looks cinematically even better during romantic scenes; light hearted; wholesome but a little unhinged.

It's basically a BL anime about a shy, closeted boy trying to befriend his crush. It's his coming of age story.

His struggles, his delusions, his fears, his response to trauma, his resolve are all just so relatable.

Whenever the protagonist wins, I feel like a proud parent watching their child grow into a fine, productive member of society. He's just so relatable, and makes me proud.

Every single episode, there were scenes so good, it got me clapping like a seal begging for fish treats.

The show has a lot going on despite it's simple plot, but I won't be spoiling anything.

Family friendly show btw, BL the whole family can enjoy.

Generally mas common sa atin ang lalaking smooth kesa may chest hair. Am wondering kung ilan satin dito may fetish sa chest hair (like me), at Ilan yung natuturn off sa kanya.
Bonus points for forearm hair and abdomen hair.

So I have this FUBU that I see every now and then. We only talk if we want to fool around. Now fast forward to our most recent meetup, I asked if I could F him kasi I was horny. Come that day I met him at his place late at night since I did overtime at work and celebrated with friends with drinks.

Ngayon nung pag punta ko sa place niya I was already drunk and tired. I hesitated to go but since it was me who wanted to do it and I already committed I pushed through pa din. Now here’s the worst part: I was having a hard time getting a hard on kasi I was really tired and drunk talaga. I just wanted to sleep at his place but I still managed to “please” him in other means but I wasn’t able to do penetration. Pagod talaga and I was sorry about it. I made sure na bumawi in other ways kahit ako na lang gumagalaw.

I wanted to fuck him but I couldn’t because when I’m really drunk and tired I have a hard time getting a hard on. After that meetup when I got home the next morning he ghosted me.

Nag sorry naman ako at nag explain but he just ghosted. No explanation. Aminado naman ako pero I just can’t believe na may ganun palang tao.

Anyone else na ganito?

Recently, may naging online friend akong cosplayer. He’s a 10/10. Gwapo at ang sexy. He’s funny, and ang gaan kausap. He knows na crush ko sya, and he’s cool with it. Minsan sinasakyan nya pa ang mga flirting ko sa kanya.

And I never had a problem with that. Siguro kase gusto ko lang syang pagpantasyahan. And I know there’s nothing more than that, so hindi na ako aasa pa ng something more.

Meanwhile, kapag sa gays ako nagkakagusto, it often hurt at the end kasi either unrequited or nauuwi lang sa situationship.

Pano nyo na discover ganon trip nyo? Kamusta dating life? O tiis na muna sa males for both romantic at sexual needs? Or vise versa?

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