u/Any_Reality_6970

I want to know something I’m a little scared M24, F26

Hi everyone thanks for see in this post I just have a question about something that happened a couple days ago.
So my girl best friend came to my house super affected cause she was disappointed about her boyfriend cause they’re having issues you know, stupid things so she wanted and advice.

She and I are super good friends (without benefits) and I respect that.
After she cried a little we stared talking about another topics and started drinking a good wine.
After like 2 bottles in 3 hours she was acting weird. Touching my hair, my chest and trying to slam my butt and the she asked to stay cause it was to dangerous to drive back and I agreed.

We were drunk already and she wanted a massage and while I was giving her a massage she took all of her clothes off and wanted me to fuck her.
I was a kind of drunk too and we ended up having sex.
It feels weird and she hasn’t talked to me in 2 days.

My questions are the next
- I was a little more sober than she? Does it count as a rape?
- Even though she asked me, is her consent valid?
- What are the chances of my losing my best friend now?
- I have not feelings for her more than friends…. Is she feeling something for me?
- am I an asshole for accepting her request to have sed with her while we were drunk?

Honestly I just feel that I’m going to loose her and as a friend she’s really nice and I like her and I’m just feeling a little sad 🫠

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u/Any_Reality_6970 — 9 days ago