u/Any_Shake_9145

Does even the ugliest guy get's easily laid?

Hi, just to clarify i'm not a bot or a troll, i created this account to ask more embarrasing stuff.

I am kinda straight but with openess to men and been attracted to some, you could say i'm 70% straigt. in my 19 years never had a gf or feel too clearly a girl was hitting on me which sometimes affected my self image.

So some days ago I did an experiment. I installed grindr, just were there like 15 min before deleting it for privacy fear, but got 3 likes and a hookup planned with a very hot guy who's my type (wouldn't act on it cause my family knows wherever i go, just leaned into it cause it got me hard, srry if that's mean, the guy was fine af, he surely has more options anyway)

I told my friend excited that i seemed to at least have more luck with guys and he told me that with men it doesn't count and even the ugliest gay guy get's laid, he said since gay men are a small nieche with less options everyone is desperate of having sex with anyone while straight men like him or ""me"" have more options with women since they're half the population, which i call total bs,

My counterargument was that we barely get approached by girls and its tougher to find a girl who's into you, while gay men have plenty of options, gay men can allow themselves to be picky, more than us but less than straight women. Doesn't matters if there's less of them, they still have more options. But he disagreed and said they are the most desperate demographic.

i kinda felt bad cause for once i felt attractive beyond just compliments and dont wanna believe him.

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u/Any_Shake_9145 — 6 days ago