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I get it, you’re young and excited about gay dating but a 25 year old is NOT an appropriate person to message under any circumstance. Please stick to youth your age

My Brother outed me years ago to my family and I started getting threats from my conservative older family members of violence threatening to beat me up and more. My mom found gay porn in my phone and recorded it to post on Facebook to humiliate me. My brothers told me it’s not cool to be gay. My mother kept asking me uncomfortable questions like “So you like dick?”

Anyway I’ve distanced myself as I’ve gotten older and now that same brother has been murdered and my family is calling me asking me to send money for his funeral due to it being so unexpected and sudden. I don’t know if I should. I didn’t like him but he has kids I feel like he deserves a proper burial. I don’t know what to do.

Edit: I was also baptized (not willingly) and had a Pastor who came over on multiple occasions to try and “Talk the Gay Out”
Basically in Home Conversion Therapy.

I guy that I tough looked really hot tapped me and sent me a message saying hay that I looked sexy and asked for pics.

I sent him some spicy pictures and asked him for pictures because sharing is caring?

Then he ghosted me now I feel robbed lol..

I just did a survey on the app asking me question on what I thought about the pricing and what it was. I remember checking the price before and knew it cost a lot but 149$/month is insane is this for the upper class gays, have any of you guys bought it? What do yall think about this “tinder-like” Grindr upgrade?

When I bttm I do everything I can to be clean I would wake up early n douche , wouldn't eat a lot , eat fiber etc .... But now that I been topping the few guys I had come over were really dirty. And it just ruins it . It's like they don't care. Los Angeles California is full of bottoms and every single one I had come over from Grindr or sniffies has been dirty like they don't even bother to douche. At this point it is just annoying. I erased both apps . Last guy literally shit all over my bed. Had to kick him out.

I do it when I bttm I prepare myself all I ask is for the same ? Is that too much to ask for ? Haha. Has anyone also had someone shit all over their bed ? Or is it only me ? 😂

Certainly got the feeling these days that it‘s much more. Did ya‘ll notice that too or am I just trippin? I mean I‘m Austrian, but I see everything happening around me

My two cents, as a middle aged person with decades of life experience, and also reading a lot of posts on here:

1- We should stop shaming cut people. They didn't choose to be this way, and 99.99% of the time their dicks work perfectly well.

2- We should stop shaming uncut people. It's the natural way of being a man, and is quite sexy. In 98% of the cases, there is no hygiene issue. There are perhaps about 2% that have some hygiene issues, often due to very tight skin around the glans -- and those guys should see a doctor to try to address that issue.

3- I think we need to rebrand uncut as "intact" because that's more accurate. "Uncut" implies that "cut" is the default, which is not the case in most of the world.

4- Parents should not get their offspring circumsized without a clear medical reason. This is a choice they should leave to each man to decide for himself once he is an adult.

Do you enjoy a blow job in a condom? I’ve never given head during a hookup and am thinking whether it would be a turn off or not. What do you think?

Asking for a smaller-than-average friend…

Edit: Appreciate the replies; gives me hope. 👍🏻

yet still insist on it?

I find myself shushing my bf in bed, because every word he says ruins the mood and makes me dry

Getting together with my regular later this week and can’t stop thinking about it. We hook up every couple of months and it’s pretty vanilla. Just to scratch the itch for both of us. I’m a bottom and would like to do something sexy for him while we’re fucking. What’s something tops love that their bottom does?

Is it just in my head and the risks are just over emphasized? Like i genuinely am struggling to find a top willing to use condoms. I understand everyone says they are on prep and take precautions but how am I supposed to believe that, people will say and do anything when horny. I know condoms aren’t the end all be all but they help me get over the mental barrier to hook up. It has been to the point where I’ve been ridiculed by a few guys from dating apps for even asking if they use condoms, like why is this such an aggressive topic for some guys?

Hi guys I’ve recently come to the conclusion that I might be bi and that I would be happy to explore my sexuality. However, I’m really tall and I’d feel as tho it would put a lot of people off regardless of if I have an ass or not.

From the moment I start stroking my dick, I usually don’t last more than 5 minutes.

When I’m with someone it’s even worse, I cum even faster.

This is genuinely so invalidating, how can I last longer? Is there anything I could take/do?

Thank you so much.

So, I'm 17, and as you may have figured out, I still live with my parents, who I'm pretty sure are homophobic. But lately, I truly want to buy an anal sextoy and I'm not sure if I will move out the moment I'm 18. And it will not be that easy for me to move out early. And I don't know what my goal is with this post, but I might want some opinions and advice.

How2beReasonable Ball juice enjoyer??