32F How do you handle the situation with your husband 42M that’s isn’t sure if he wants to stay or not
Me ‘32F’ and my husband ‘42M’ have been together 13 years married 11 years. We’ve had fights before but we had two really bad ones this last month to the point hurtful things were said that couldn’t be taken back and I shouldn’t have said in anger but now he said he wants space to figure out if he wants to stay married or not but he’s staying home with us and sharing a bed with me and talking to me like nothing happen but I go to say I love you or hug kiss etc he backs up and says he needs space he’s not feeling it yet, but tells me he’ll always love me. Then since the fight he’s been getting his hair cut and dyed and working out getting gym membership staying at his friends houses which I’m fine with so what he needs to do to feel better, then says he wants to change his job or quit and don’t know where his life is going. We have a vacation coming up in June and I’m just so hurt I can’t express myself to him the way I want and when I talk to him he just blows me off, but I don’t want to jus let keep going like this til vacation and be miserable if we haven’t figured out.
We have 3 daughter and I’m trying to keep everything normal as possible, so that’s also why I’m trying to save the marriage if possible but idk what to,
what would you do or think ?
Is he just doing this to mess with me to get back at me or what?