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STBXW asked for Divorce on 5/7. 13 years together, two kids. Been in mediation for about a month. We were working together to process all that went wrong and had a lot of really great conversations.

3 weeks ago, she meets guy out with friend. 3rd date in on her birthday she sleeps with him.

I knew it was inevitable. But it’s hard when it happens so fast while we were getting to know each other again in a healthier way.

It’s emotionally devastating, but ultimately I know it will help me move on.