u/AnybodyUpThere

Flying W/Triplets vs Roadtrip

Trying to decide flying vs road trip for a Christmas vacation to San Diego(from NY) up until New Year's and probably a shorter trip to Los Angeles. They won't be lap babies but 2 years old and all have CP and non ambulatory. One is epileptic and all are tube fed. Realistically flying is faster though so stressful and I'm not a big fan of flying when its just me to worry about let alone 3. I also worry about flight delays and cancelations vs driving at our own place but taking forever to get there. I guess we can make driving a trip in and of itself. Husband wants to fly and I lean more towards driving. I can't convince him to take several trains out west which would also likely have delays and problems too. Both sets of grand parents are coming and my sister and her twins so its a family affair but everyone is flying their own airlines etc coming in at different times.

What would ya'll do? We haven't traveled since before they were born and everyone just wants to get away from the city and nobody has been to SD so its a fun way to start some new memories and happy ones. I'm just worried about the logistics of it all.

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u/AnybodyUpThere — 2 days ago

3 of Everything.

This week we got new adaptive equipment for the triplets. Wheelchair, stander, activity chair. We have a large apartment, but for 3 we never really realized how much space it would all take up and where we would put it all. So for years our daughter who passed away room has been untouched and I could tell my husband was like let's just keep it all in there but didn't want to say it, so I said it and its the weirdest feeling, but also like in a way she's saying she'll protect all they need to have a better life.

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u/AnybodyUpThere — 1 month ago