So my Birthday was a few days ago and my Mom totally ruined it. I noticed she was quite snarky and snippy with me the whole day smh. I came out to the car and no you look nice today. She says, "Oh I have a jacket like that." I was wearing a jacket,jumpsuit and sneakers. It was a cute but casual look. I'm a small woman. She was like I hate jumpsuits! LMAO I never asked if she liked them or not but goes on to say she had a similar outfit when she was younger.
So the day was almost over and we go into a grocery store and she says, "I think you won't take off your jacket because you don't want me to see that your jumpsuit doesn't fit!" OMG I lost it! I was trying not to lose it. I'm a small woman not overweight at all and never have been. She is definitely overweight in face she tells me her Dr. always tells her she's gained more weight. In the store you basically are body shaming me and tries to buy me ice cream. So by this time I'm hurt and losing it. "I'm like no I don't want you just said I'm fat!" She's like, "I never said that." The no accountability is really making me more angry. I then told her what she said last week. She said, "You keep eating ice-cream you're gonna be fat and bigger than me!" Mind you I've never been big at all. She's really been on my weight for the past few weeks!
At that point I was ready to go home. She has the audacity to get mad at me because I told her about what she just said. To ruin someone's birthday is not cool at all. A few weeks ago she tried that body shaming thing in public again. I love when people hear her talking crazy. The lady was like, "She's not even big!" Her other go to is I'm an old bag. I am someone who looks very young for my age. Other people told her, " I don't think so old where? You look very good and young for your age." I'm sure she's stewing about it lol.
I think it's time to stop talking to her again. I've done this a few times already because she's very exhausting. If she isn't snapping at me for no reason she's trying to bring me down and make me feel bad about myself instead of lifting me up. She doesn't get it when I go no contact it's because of her actions but she gets mad at me for leaving her alone. I don't know what to do anymore.