I Travelled to Meet Him, He Blocked Me Right After
Long Post ahead !!
I matched with a guy on a matrimonial app in January 2026. After a few basic conversations there, I found his Instagram account and decided to text him directly. I introduced myself, and he actually loved the initiative. From there, we started talking regularly and got emotionally close over the next 3–4 months.
He’s a Captain in the Indian Army, so meeting wasn’t easy. In March, he asked me to visit him at his posting because he didn’t have enough leave to travel himself. I agreed, but due to work commitments, I couldn’t make the trip at that time.
After that, things slowly started becoming difficult between us. We began having frequent fights and misunderstandings, but despite everything, I genuinely liked him and wanted to give this a fair chance. So, I finally planned a trip to meet him in the first week of May.
Just one day before booking my tickets, he suddenly told me that he was also talking to a few other women because he wanted “the best for himself” and was exploring other options. This completely shocked me because very early into our conversations, I had clearly told him that I really liked our vibe and would only talk to him seriously. At the time, he had said he felt the same way.
Even after hearing that, he told me he still wanted to give us a chance, so I went ahead with the trip.
I stayed with him for two days. During my stay, he was extremely affectionate and physically close the entire time. I had been working continuously for eight days before travelling, so I was exhausted, and because of that, we mostly stayed in his room instead of going out.
But what really disturbed me was his behaviour while I was there. At one point, he literally went into another room to video call girls he had met through the same matrimonial app. Even at night, while we were together, he was constantly on his phone texting someone. It made me feel extremely disrespected and confused, but I kept ignoring the signs because I genuinely wanted things to work out.
The moment I came back, his behaviour completely changed. He became distant and cold, and eventually blocked me from everywhere.
The only explanation he gave was that “our vibes don’t match” and that he couldn’t continue further. Ironically, while we were together, he kept saying how much he was enjoying the moment and how nice it felt meeting me.
This entire experience has taken a really bad toll on my mental and physical health. I genuinely don’t understand where things went wrong or whether he ever intended to take this seriously in the first place.
Took help from AI to edit few things