The Deep Loss-Communication Breakdown
I was in an LDR for 5 months with a person I love deeply and dearly. We struggled with the distance, and my own mental baggage from my life made things worse. I do not blame her for her frustration and disappointment in me. I understand why she felt to way she does. If I could find a way to prove it could be resolved I would do it in a heartbeat, but I honestly feel like that opportunity isn’t there.
But it’s been less than 2 weeks since our last interaction and it’s broken me. To go from having your person to the complete and utter disconnect is brutal. Every minute I miss her.
How do you cope with this? As I feel in an LDR communication is the key way of connecting and emotional together. As it’s the true way you maintain and grow your relationship. To lose the person you love wholeheartedly, and loss of that person and connection. It’s crushing.
To those in an LDR treasure the communication and connection. The love. Don’t mess it up like me, ensure your partner knows and understands yours scars.