I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years
I (21F) kissed a guy (30?M) on a ski trip, whom apparently was married.
What happened:
We were at a club and the guy invited us up on his and his friends’ table. He was very eager to get my friends and I up there - while we were dancing he stood up on the table and pointed at us trying to get our attention.
Fast forward a bit, we found out the guys on the table were throwing a bachelor party for one of the guys. The guy I spoke with said that most of the guys are married, but he hasn’t found the one yet or something like that. We kissed at the club later on, and then he got my instagram. He said something like - if I wanted to go home with him or something I could text him.
Then my friends and I left, and he literally followed us with his friend bc they didn’t want us to leave the club, and so he texted me “Why are you leaving already” and called me (I didn’t respond) - but then the next day he had deleted all messages and unfollowed me, and he hadn’t accepted my follow request either.
How I found out he was married:
So, I have a stalker ig profile (yes ik cringe) and sent a follow request to him through there - and then he accepted - and now I can see all of the posts he has with his wife, and his wife has also posted pics with him FROM 2014! *Btw I made a mistake in the title - I don’t Think they got married 10 years ago, they have just been together that long. He was very obviously in his 30’s
What should I do?
I feel like it might ruin a marriage to DM his wife, I mean it’s not that big of a deal to ‘just kiss’ if you look at it like that, but at the same time he might have done it a lot of times… Should I tell his wife or not?