u/Apprehensive-Lab733

Im 39F
My husband is 39M
We have been married for 10 years.

He was wiping a food stain on his pants

He sees me walk past and uses the dirty wet wipe and smears it over my mouth and face. (4-5 strokes).

1. I’m having trouble getting over it - I’m so grossed out. Is my reaction normal/ reasonable?
2. He apologised but it sounded half hearted and I know he thinks I’m overreacting. Is a person without a personality disorder accidentally capable of doing something belittling as he did to

me

1. ?